A hypertrophied Imagination

Crucial meeting or short passion? They is in any case hours spent between friends to decipher the mysteries of the love and to build a idealized man that it is possible to make fall of his pedestal at the desired time. No love without stories nor interior scenarios! The imaginary one forms part of the love life fully. Thanks to him, I keep the image of liked at the head, I feel filled while living my daily newspaper, I sprinkle myself endorphins, these small molecules for antidepressant purpose. They is a little as to plunge itself in an illustrated book of kitchen of receipts appétissantes: a stratagem to feel pleasure when the meal is not yet ready.

Fantasmer the other is an activity common to both sexes. The specialists in psychism however agree to say that it is particularly intense side woman. The hypertrophy of imagination in love female is explained several manners. Initially, traditionally, the love is held for the business of the women. Then, “high during centuries from the point of view of the Good match, the women remained programmed to dream the Great Meeting, condition supposed of their happiness”, points out the psychotherapist Sylvie Tenenbaum (1). “A long time,
the culture maintained them in position of waiting, supplements Genevieve Djénati (2), psychological clinician. Locked up in their kitchen, the women had only their daydreams waked up to try to include/understand what their husbands carried out outside. ” Thus, to resist the trouble and to project themselves in an existence more exciting, they had to develop their imaginative potential. Those which feel reluctant to be made films of are not deprived: they are afraid to give each other false hopes. “I avoid making me films, I am too afraid to leave in gimlet, acknowledges Claudia, 37 years. I fear that my daydreams bring me too far and I do not want to be disappointed by have hoped for the beautiful story and to have idealized the other. ”