A Play which has its rules

To be made films and to tell them, to decipher the actions of the elected official between girlfriend during whole days constitute almost universal means of communication between women. But the big game of the confidences and the deciphering of the enigmas in love obeys certain rules. The first: the exercise must remain ludic and each partner must find his account of mental excitation there. “For the confidante, nothing more wearying to note that the girlfriend is locked up in the dull repetition of the same sterile scenario and turns in round like a hamster in her cage”, explains Sophie Cadalen. “One evening, reminds Emmanuelle, 35 years, whereas Katia told me for the thousandths time: “This time, it is the good, it is sure. You realize? One made the same studies, one has the same ideas in policy, the same centers of interest”, etc, I had brutally the feeling to be only one obliging ear charged to hear the same scenario without future. To have met the last very favorite of Katia, I could visualize the continuation of the events: a Mister who never calls, my girlfriend the eye rivetted on her portable and me trying to open the eyes to him. And I refused to play the game. ”

Second rule: the councils of the confidante must remain credible and personalized. As, “the day when a woman understands as his/her friends bring only their own vision of the men and the love, and that actually, these is themselves that they speak when they advise it, it starts to want to keep for it his hopes and his fears”, Sophie Cadalen continues. And that is a first step towards the awakening that nobody, in any event, can never predict to become it of a history of love.