All the films have an end

To be made films belongs to the great pleasures of the existence. However, the day when a woman finds really the “good”, the machine with fantasmer starts to slow down. It is with in love one that the projects are erected scaffolding then, say the desires, are expressed fears. It is not that, brutally, we repudiate any imaginary life to live finally in rough reality – human psychism needs too. However, it is undeniable, the camera of our daydreams in love ceases turning to full mode at the time when the love is concretized. Quite simply because we find there a satisfaction higher than that gotten by our settings in scene. And that, temporarily, we do not need more them…

The men also are made their cinema

Nicolas Guéguen, professor of social and cognitive psychology at the university of Brittany-South and author of 100 Small Experiments of psychology of the seduction, dismounts some generally accepted ideas on the love with the masculine.

““Has which moment are you seen that you had fallen in love?” American researchers posed this simple matter to several hundreds of individuals, reports Nicolas Guéguen. Eh well, the men declared themselves in love more quickly than the women: as of the fourth meeting for 20% of them, against 15% of the women. At the end of twenty meetings, only 30% of the men acknowledged anything to feel, against 43% of the women! This study proceeded in the years 1970 and I think that today, with the rehabilitation of the expression of the emotions, the number of men in love as of the fourth go would be even more important. In fact, the men often have a more idealistic vision of the love than the women. Contrary to much of them, in their daydreams in love, mainly, they grant very little importance to the incomes and the social status of the other. ”