Fantasmer the other is an activity common to both sexes. The specialists in psychism however agree to say that it is particularly intense side woman. The hypertrophy of imagination in love female is explained several manners. Initially, traditionally, the love is held for the business of the women. Then, “high during centuries from the point of view of the Good match, the women remained programmed to dream the Great Meeting, condition supposed of their happiness”, points out the psychotherapist Sylvie Tenenbaum (1). “A long time,
the culture maintained them in position of waiting, supplements Genevieve Djénati (2), psychological clinician. Locked up in their kitchen, the women had only their daydreams waked up to try to include/understand what their husbands carried out outside. ” Thus, to resist the trouble and to project themselves in an existence more exciting, they had to develop their imaginative potential. Those which feel reluctant to be made films of are not deprived: they are afraid to give each other false hopes. “I avoid making me films, I am too afraid to leave in gimlet, acknowledges Claudia, 37 years. I fear that my daydreams bring me too far and I do not want to be disappointed by have hoped for the beautiful story and to have idealized the other. ”